Eliza
Caldwell Browning
(1807-1885)
Eliza
Caldwell was born near Richmond,
Kentucky, in 1807. She married Orville H. Browning in 1836 and
moved to Quincy, Illinois, where her husband practiced law
and where she would live for the next forty-nine years.
The
friendship between Eliza and Abraham Lincoln began in 1836 and would last
nearly thirty years. Lincoln had known O. H. Browning from the
Black Hawk War but did not meet Eliza until she moved with her husband to
Vandalia for the start of the legislative session in 1836. They boarded in the same house, and Lincoln was soon spending
his free time visiting Mrs. Browning.
While generally embarrassed and awkward among ladies, Lincoln was clearly quite comfortable with
Eliza Browning. Eliza discovered the
young Abraham’s best qualities and treated him in such a manner that he was
soon completely at ease with her. She
occupied a special place in Lincoln’s
early adulthood and represented a woman of higher social standing with whom he
felt complete comfort. The two would
remain friends until Lincoln’s
death in 1865, representing what may have been the longest female friendship in
his life.
When
Eliza is mentioned in Lincoln histories, it is
usually in conjunction with an 1838 Lincoln
letter to her in which he satirized an unsuccessful courtship. The letter suggests an easy familiarity
between the cultured and politically astute Eliza and Lincoln. They were both intellectual and shared a love
for poetry, humor, and wit.
The
Lincolns and the Brownings were friends through Abraham Lincoln’s marriage and
into his White House years. When the Lincolns’ son Willie died
of typhoid fever, the Brownings were summoned to the White House. Eliza stayed on for a week at Lincoln’s request to care
for Mary and for young Thomas (Tad).
Letter
from Eliza Browning to Abraham Lincoln, June 8, 1861 requesting a Supreme Court
appointment for her husband Orville H. Browning.
Courtesy
of the Library of Congress, Manuscript Division